CHEATING SPOUSES DO IT MAYBE FOR THESE 6 REASONS

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There is probably no worse feeling in a relationship than suspecting or knowing that your partner is being unfaithful. The cold fingers of dread that creep up your spine and start to squeeze your heart so hard that it disintegrates into a thousand pieces.

Some might think I’m being dramatic, but for those who have felt it, you will know it’s an understatement of the wave of emotions that can hit us when we find out the person we loved and trusted has betrayed us. And with the boom of technology and social media, it seems that we have even more ways our relationships can be threatened these days.

Of course, relationships break down because for a variety of reasons and issues, but I’m focusing on why someone is capable of throwing everything away for a moment of passion with another?

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Here are six possible reasons why people cheat:

1. Insecurity

Being unfaithful can often be the result of a person feeling very insecure within themselves. Whether they suffer from low self-esteem, depression or have past issues they haven’t dealt with, it can all manifest in a way that is detrimental to themselves and their relationships.

When people are insecure, they often cause drama in their life without even meaning to do so. However, more often than not they will use their fears or state of mind as an excuse for their behaviour and play the role of the victim (even though they clearly were the one in the wrong). So, don’t kid yourself… no matter how low or insecure they feel, they are still responsible for their actions, and what they have done is not justifiable.

2. Fear of commitment

For some people, being committed to someone means that they then have a certain expectation placed upon them which they feel they can’t live up to. They might see being in a monogamous relationship as an end of fun and freedom, or that you will, in some way, expect them to be more than they are.

Being in a committed relationship can also make people feel vulnerable, because it will essentially require a lot more of oneself than a one-night stand and it has a whole lot more consequences than a non-committed relationship.

3. They feel neglected

Your partner needs attention, romance and to feel loved and appreciated. Life can get busy, especially with children, work, cleaning and everything else, but the moment we start letting our priorities get out of order is the moment we start to invite temptation and issues into our relationship.

Your actions and words have the power to build your partner up or tear them down. They will also indicate what you think of your spouse and where your relationship lies on your priority list. No one likes to feel neglected and unappreciated as it can breed bitterness and resentment.

4. Needs are no longer being met

It’s not rocket science, nor is it a news flash: Men are physical and need sex, and women need affection and attention. This isn’t about having to be physically intimate with your partner every single day, because if that’s what they want then I’m afraid there is an even bigger issue at hand. *cough*

Regular intercourse will, however, help to create and keep that close intimate bond between you and it will satisfy his natural urges and needs, which, in turn, usually makes him a more desirable and loving partner.

Men also need to be aware that a woman needs to feel loved, romanced and valued, as well as physically fulfilled.

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5. They love the chase

There will be people that are only in it for the thrill, and these are the ones who usually have a track record of the ‘hit and run’ method: they hit your heart — and your booty — hard and then run as soon as things become too serious and complicated. This person doesn’t want to commit because that represents the end of fun. Instead they get their kicks out of pursuing and chasing someone new and once they have caught them, they will instinctively look for another soon after to offer them the buzz they are after.

6. They have fallen out of love or feel your relationship has become complacent

Love is not just a feeling, it’s an action that needs to happen daily regardless of the situation or emotions you are feeling at the time. It’s no secret that you’ve got to work hard at your relationship so that it doesn’t become stale, one-sided or loveless.

Partners can and will cheat if they have fallen out of love or feel like their relationship has died. Does it make it excusable? No. Understandable perhaps, but at any rate, if a someone feels the need to have an affair after being faithful for a long time then clearly there were problems going on long before the act itself.

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Henry Sapiecha

50 SUPER SEXY & CRAZY WEDDING PHOTO PICS GALLERY

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When it comes to your wedding day, everyone wants this day to be special and one that they will remember forever. Well these photos are extremely awkward and honestly nobody will forget these, but they are probably not what the person wanted to have from their wedding day. Some are on purpose, but a lot of them were not what you expected at all. Make sure you check out these 27 hilarious and tragically awkward wedding photos. Honestly though, they make for some amazing memories that they will be glad they have awkward or not! You won’t be able to help but laugh when you look at these pictures.

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Awkward pose for this bride above.I wonder whose idea it was

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The lads are having a good eyeful of this roller skating derby bride on wheels

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Bride & maids with matching under briefs.R they setting a trend?

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Who is with who here..???

What kind of strange wedding did we just walk into. The bride has her arm around a bridesmaid, the groom has his arm around a bridesmaid,  the bridesmaid has her arm around a bridesmaid.  Everybody gets a bridesmaid except for the servers in the back. Well, at least they’re being entertained.

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Again with the awkward posing on cars. When will people realize that this isn’t actually as cool as you think? Not that anybody was going to tell her. Certainly not the photographer. Wouldn’t be surprised if a few of the shots probably went “missing” afterwards.

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They’re busted and she knows it. I wonder what’s going through her head as she looks right at the photographer. The groom certainly doesn’t seem to mind. Hey, maybe they’re just exhibitionists. In any case, that has got to be the fluffiest wedding dress of all time

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You know you’re at the right wedding when the cops show up to arrest the bride. What could she possibly have done to deserve this? Looks like they’ll have to reschedule that honeymoon

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Lusting bridesmaid for bride or is she just hungry for love.

They’re having a blast regardless. Who needs a groom anyways?

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This wedding has gone completely out the window! All puns aside, I have no idea what’s happening at this point. Why on earth is the bride being dropped out the window? Whatever the reason, this looks like a bad sign regarding their future as a married couple…

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I’m willing to bet that this is that one cousin nobody wants to invite to the wedding, but ends up being invited anyway. I wouldn’t call this a photobomb though… It looks like this guy has been there for a while.  At least somebody is enjoying the wedding. She’s looking at his two balls.

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This girl is literally every gamer’s dream wife. The wedding is happening in twenty minutes but there’s still time for some league of legends. Until she ends up missing the ceremony because she was waiting for a game… Still worth it.

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Okay, whose brilliant idea was this? You just know it has to be the photographer. There is no way they stepped into those porta-potties and said “this looks like a great place for a photoshoot!”. What a crappy wedding photo.

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Hey now, save it for the …group honeymoon? If anybody has any idea what’s happening here, feel free to let us know because i’m pretty sure wedding orgies went out of style centuries ago

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Georgina of the jungle over here looks like she was really enjoying the photo shoot. Though it is a bit weird that it’s taking place in some sketchy park in the woods. To each their own. Watch out for that tetanus.

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The muscular bride

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Nothing says camaraderie like a synchronized fellatio.  It looks like they’re outside a fancy venue for this photo. Kind of makes you wonder how many people were watching this go down. There are so many things wrong here.

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Now that’s one heck of a wedding. Although…It might be a little hard to say “I do”  with a ball gag. Then again it’s also hard to say “I don’t” which i’m guessing is closer to what these guys were going for.

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Holy cow, you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to figure out that this wedding is in Russia. There’s no way it isn’t. Nobody brings a bear to a wedding. And no, your uncle Bernie doesn’t count.

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Now this is an intriguing photograph, just about any way you look at it. Reason is that I don’t think anyone but them will truly know why this picture was taken, or why they are doing what they are doing. Any thoughts guys? The first and only thing that comes to my mind is….Russian.

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Now this is one hilarious wedding portrait. This guy is so excited for the honeymoon that he’s bursting with joy. Meanwhile she looks like she’s beginning to regret her decision. Can you blame them?

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This traditional part of the wedding is normally harmless, but when you are in some weird, super public place, it can get awkward quickly.  Are they at Disneyland for god sake? How many passerby are you letting attend your wedding? Why is she on her cell phone? Lots of questions…

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Well aren’t they just the perfect couple? Salute to the man serving his country, now he is back home and settling down with his new wife. They both look ridiculously happy don’t they? Lets hope he still wears the pants in the relationship.

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“I’m Free!!!!” This is one of the more epic picture in this gallery. It seems as though wild thang wanted to show everyone that she was a complete virgin until today (her big day). It looks like she is even on a stage with a huge projector screen behind her. The grooms buddies better call him in the morning to make sure he is still himself. Odds say he will be a changed man

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This wedding photo may take the cake when it comes to pure WTF. We have a seemingly attractive, clean cut, and clothed bride, dancing with a super tatted, naked ginger buff guy, with a face that could be mistaken for Marilyn Manson.’s.  Did I mention he is in a man thong? Turns out he’s a semi-famous Russian body builder, named Sasha Shpak. Known for his freaky eccentric look and preference to wear minimal clothing…. as you can see.

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To my knowledge, choosing the perfect wedding dress is probably the the most important part of the wedding to women. It has to fit perfectly and some brides even go on crazy diets to fit in their dress. They at the least, make sure it fits their bodies properly. This bride is not your normal bride…

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What a perfectly timed photograph, props to whoever took this picture. Now the question is, what the hell is going on here. This guy has a beautiful new wife next to him, clearly trying to get his attention and there some one else face down in his lap, and they appear to be of the female gender. There are so many possibilities of what is really going on. What do you guys think is happening right at this very moment? Besides that the bride has some major cleavage action going on.

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Wow. This new bride didn’t leave much for the imagination. She’s wearing a rather low cut wedding dress and seems to be falling out of it almost. I’m sure the groom is not complaining, and it’s safe to say that at least half of the wedding guests don’t mind it either. Good for you newlyweds!

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Well this must have been a wild night. It also must have been awesome to be the wedding photographer at this venue. The face on the girl underneath (we will call her the horse in this situation, since she is being ridden by the cowboy bride) is priceless. She is most likely one of the bridesmaids and possibly the little sister of the bride. Yee-Haw!!

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We’re…not really sure what’s happening in this one. Is that seriously a dollar store? Are those people behind her wedding guests or customers? So many questions… Lets just hope she didn’t buy the dress there.

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What in the world is granny doing with her hand all up in there? It’s like she is either throwing up a gang sign or just trying to get her hand in the picture. Whatever she was doing, I think she succeeded. There has to be at least a 30 year age difference between Granny and Pink Shirt Guy.

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This is what appears to be a gorgeous wedding photo of a great couple until you see what looks like creepy parents in the background. Whatever this photographer was trying to do, they didn’t pull it off. The fact that the parents refuse to smile makes it look like this groom probably better watch out.

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Well this wedding did not happen as planned according to this photo. As you can see these (either newlyweds or engaged couple that were supposed to be newlyweds) are surrounded by Police. The groom is being arrested with handcuffs, face down, and the bride looks to heading in that same direction. How would it feel to get arrested on your wedding day? It goes from the best day of your life to the worst.

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This little boy’s curiosity has started pretty darn young.  It looks like he would have gotten away with it, if it weren’t for this perfectly timed photo by some talented photographer. The bride has no idea what so ever. Think he got a good look?

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This wedding party knows how to have a good time. This hilarious photo has caught them with their pants down and these girls seem to have a nice view from their spot in the shot. Now everyone is going to want groom underwear for their wedding! Hmm, do the girls have on matching underwear?

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Now this is one bouquet toss we wouldn’t mind watching over and over again. In fact, all the wedding attendees were probably like, “just wait a little longer, they are busy”. The girls lined up to catch it seem a bit preoccupied with themselves. Also why are there only three girls lined up the catch it? I guess it improves their odds. Check out the old guy taking a photos or a video of the action. He knows what he’s doing.

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This looks like it could have been a low budget wedding, which everyone can appreciate! Why spend a ton of money on one day when you can spend it on your future life, and on a sick honeymoon. But something tells me their honeymoon might have been in a motel 6 in the next state over. However what really matters is their happiness, and they do look happy…or liquored up.

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The real moment all the wedding guests had been waiting for. Some hammered member of the wedding party face plants on the tile floor!!! Once again, check out the photo timing of this hard slam to the floor, it’s almost like he anticipated it. Rob Dyrdek would call this a half-scorpion.

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Why wait for the honeymoon when you can just take her on the ground while getting your wedding pictures done? This guy just couldn’t wait and it looks like his pants are coming unfastened next! Hopefully they waited for the cameraman to leave before taking it all off and getting at it.

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Old buck & sweet young thing wedding couple walking down the isle

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Hope you have enjoyed the journey

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Henry Sapiecha

 

 

 

15 COMMONLY OVERLOOKED RED FLAG SIGNS IN A RELATIONSHIP

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Anyone who has ever been in a relationship is most likely familiar with the little (and major) red flags that often come along with the territory.

You’ve probably been warned by everyone from your grandmother to Oprah about red flags in romantic relationships. Relationships, and the dating process, can be tricky. And navigating the sometimes stormy waters of love, and trying to determine if your partner is a catch, can be quite challenging.

How do they treat service staff? How do they react when you ask for a little space? Are they cruel to their mother? Do they pick their nose in public?

Have you ever met someone and wished you had a crystal ball to see into the future? We certainly do. It would save a ton of heartache and wasted energy. When we’re excited about a relationship, it’s easy to overlook the red flags that at least need to be explored. Of course, some red flags are more serious than others.

The longer you choose to pretend there’s nothing wrong, you’re going to continue subjecting yourself to unnecessary pain and suffering. When not addressed early on, then 4 weeks, 4 months or 4 years into the relationship you’ll be faced with a crisis and most likely left saying, “I had no idea they were so controlling/emotionally abusive/arrogant/manipulative…”

If any of these red flags are prevalent in your current relationship, it’s probably time you stop ignoring them and run for the hills.

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1…Bad Days

When you start having more bad days than good, that’s a wrap.

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2…Overly Dependent

Your significant other is dependent on you to be happy or entertained.

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3…Half-Truths

When they tell “half-truths” — they tell you the part of the story that answers your question but leave out the part that would “make you upset.”

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4…Priorities

They consistently make you their last priority, or simply an afterthought. Conversely, if you become their only priority and everything else is an afterthought.

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5…Passwords

They password protect everything.

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6…Scorekeeping

Keeping score is a behavior that will quickly unravel any relationship.

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7…Bringing You Down

When she/he puts you down in front of others.

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8…Ultimatums

Using ultimatums to get their way instead of compromising.

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9…Secrets

Any time the relationship needs to be kept secret, there is a problem in there somewhere.

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10…Independence

Both of you must be comfortable doing separate things in the same room

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11…Separation

When they don’t want you to be friends with their friends, or vice versa.

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12…Past Relationships

In the beginning stages, they constantly complain about their ex. It isn’t easy to build a new relationship on the ashes of an old one.

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13…Text Messages

You text your lover and never really get a response in a reasonable amount of time, but when they are with you, they are constantly on their phone.

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14…Family and Friends

All of your friends, or your trusted family members, hate your boyfriend/girlfriend.

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15…Responsibility

They never apologize or take responsibility for bad behavior.

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Henry Sapiecha